KEMEN OR SEMEN: The Blurred Line Between MOLESTATION AND CONSENT

By Ceaf staff

#KemenOrSEMEN

                 MOLESTATION : According to Definition of Sexual abuse,
also referred to as molestation, is usually undesired
sexual behavior by one person upon another. When force is
immediate, of short duration, or infrequent, it is called
sexual assault. The offender is referred to as a sexual
abuser or (often pejoratively) molester.





                CONSENT: permission for something to happen or agreement
to do something. In this case only molestation occurs
between Kemen and TBOSS also known as TOKUNBO IDOWU and i
was shocked that some Misogynistic men also know as
CELEBRITIES AND COMEDIAN ARE COMING to  KEMEN RESCUE.

The big brother show in General opinion is a show that lacks morals and
promotes nothing but Sex! Sex! Sex! but an incident that occurred in the
big brother house and the way the producers handled it, is perhaps the
only sex Education Nigerians would ever get on the meaning of “CONSENT”

             Kemen choose in our opinion at #CEAF to sexually touch a
woman without her “CONSENT”. The defense that it is what a
‘correct guy’ would do and i quote “AYO MAKUN”, when a fine
babe is beside him, is totally unacceptable. KEMEN OR SEMEN
as I like to call him, is a disgrace to all men worldwide and
unless he can return in time and undo his act, we shall
forever remember him as a total waste of man sperm.

According to the US Department of State, Country Studies on Human Rights
Practices; Domestic violence has grown prevalent, and is usually regarded
as socially permitted. In Nigeria alone, approximately three in ten
Nigerian ladies have experienced actual physical violence since age
fifteen. Not to mention the rampant increase of domestic violence in the
last 3 years from 21% in 2011 to 30% in 2013. Which is no wonder we hear
of everyday people, such as Ronke shonde, Titilayo Arowolo in our local
news killed by domestic violence.

           But most of this cases are of private citizens which only comes
to limelight after it is too late. But what happens when such
an abuse is done in the public eye by individuals or people who
ought to serve us? or the victims are public figure’s
themselves? What happens? Domestic violence is not a respecter
of persons, anyone can fall victim. Here are other few
instances:

Dino Melaye :Domestic Abuse,Politics,Bully.

                 When you hear the name Dino Melaye, what is the first
thing that comes to your mind? Trouble? Wife beater?
Egomania?Bully?




There is no doubt that  Dino’s Melaye over the past few years has been in
the news more for the wrong reasons, for what has occurred in his personal
life, or derogatory and illiterate  statements he has made, than any real
significant change he has brought ever since he joined politics. The only
time I heard any significant or positive effect concerning his name was
when I was in 200 level Law and we were asked to discuss whether his
refusal to obey a court order or not was constitutional, since then
NOTHING. All he has managed to do however is cause his two wives to leave
him, because he rather display his punching prowess on two women than in
the gym.

His first wife , Tokunbo accused him of hitting her, and that whenever
they had a confrontation, she would find herself in the hospital receiving
treatment for all types of injuries. On September 25, 2013, it was
reported that Tokunbo and Dino had an argument , and he held a silver
pistol against her head and would have pulled the trigger if he wasn’t
distracted when his phone rang. As evidence of his battery, various
pictures of her bleeding surfaced online.

I guess further evidence of his ‘manliness’ was when his second wife,
Alero Falope left her marriage just after seven months of marriage. Of
course, she denied the reason  she left was because of domestic violence,
but then we know the stigma that comes with talking about it… Just saying!





           I guess the most popular news involving Dino Melaye that got
the nation talking, was when he threatened to rape and beat up
Senator OluRemi Tinubu former first lady of Lagos State;
particularly since his remark to her after she called him a dog
and a thug, was targeted at her as a woman. If he simply called
her a dog as well, that wouldn’t have mattered much, besides
she insulted him. But to threaten to ‘impregnate her’ and say
nothing would happen, and think he has made a worthy rebuttal,
shows how low he regards women.I also remember him as someone
who objectify women by comparing former Aviation Minister to
the latter that he prefers her because of her BREAST AND SHAPE.
PROFESSOR DINO, HOW LOW CAN YOU GO?in my opinion,he only see
women as sexual object. If we cannot trust our so called leader
to live the law he helps make, who then can we trust?

TIWA AND TEEBILLZ

Another celebrity is Tiwa Savage. Okay so this may not have been actual
physical abuse; meaning Tiwa Savage husband did not actually beat or hit
her, but an abuse did occur. Emotional and verbal abuse, which in our
opinion at #CEAF is as bad. It does a lot of damage to a woman’s
psychological and mental health being. We at #CEAF do not stand for any
kind of abuse, whether it is physical or not, or done by a Woman or not.
Kudos to Tiwa Savage for speaking out!

            NB: An advice to TEE BILLZ is that , what happen between you
and TIWA may also happen in the future if you don’t get a JOB
,because  from all indication the main reason you had a fall
out with your wife was all ABOUT MONEY and Miss-management.

  TONTO DIKE AND MR CHURCHILL

Then Tonto Dike. Apart from being the same ‘incompetent interviewer’ (as
some people have said) who conducted their interviews, another thing Tiwa
savage and Tonto Dike have in common is an abusive ex-husband according to
Report. Tonto recently disclosed that her marriage of less than three
years had crashed, and among many other allegations, domestic abuse was
said to have occurred. She revealed to the media pictures of herself
bruised. This is to show you that nothing is perfect, even the most seemly
perfect woman can be going through abuse.Kudos to Tonto for standing
Strong.




So whether it’s Dino Melaye(the wife beater )or Teebillz, (the emotional
abuser) or KEMEN the MOLESTER, abuse is abuse, and no one, whether
celebrity or not should stand for it.

Big shout out to Celebrities and individuals who stood up against
Molestation of TOKUNBO IDOWU and if you think what Kemen did was
right,it’s shows you are part of the Problem affecting our society.

Let stand up with #CEAF and say NO TO SEXUAL ASSAULTS AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

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