Pre-Valentine Mistakes You Should Avoid

So Valentine Day is almost here and there are a few things you should note as the day approaches.

 

Since it is not the day yet, we will be talking about Pre-Valentine mistakes you should avoid.

 

1. Do not fall in love desperately because you don't want to be single by valentine day

 

If the motive is just to have somebody, anybody, with you on the Valentine day, you are probably making a mistake.

 

Slow down.

 

There are many other Valentine day to be celebrated and yes, you are still very much alive, here on earth!

 

2. Do not get depressed because you don’t have a “Val”

 

Nobody yet?

 

Don’t crucify yourself over that.

 

Jesus already died for you and all things will be made good in God’s time.

 

3. Do not compare yourself with anybody

 

Oh yes, some of your friends will be there to rock the day with their boyfriends and girlfriends.

 

Do not fall into comparison traps!

 

There is uniqueness of destinies and you are unique in your own way.

 

You will therefore be doing yourself an injustice by comparing yourself with others.

 

4. Avoid rental services on that day!

 

It is not called "renting" but that is what it is!

 

Don’t rent a lover for that day or allowed to be rented. It most often ends in some sexual rendezvous with accompanying regrets of course.

 

5. Beware of an “Ex” who suddenly shows up!

 

The Ex who has exited your life suddenly shows up days before valentine?

 

Be careful, it could just be a rash action resulting from some of loneliness or just trying rekindle and an old lusty affair.